Room for responsible people (for monthly renters)

This the introduction page for the rooms in my place. There is at least one room available as long as the calendar is available. You can see the detailed instructions with pic to show how people should react if there is some roommates did things that we usually think are crossing other's border or taking other's advantages. in this page, I usually deal with inquiries, and will recommend the exact room for people who made a booking request, by declining the request and making a new offer The space It's an apartment with five rooms with own locks separately. Using time: Confirming your using time within the first week after your check-in is very important. Now, everyone can have 1.5h + 45m undisturbed kitchen using time, and 1h + 0.5 h undisturbed showering room using time (or 1h + 0.5h + 0.5h if needed) per day. Check the available using time when booking or when check-in. Common problems in a shared apartments: Among male tenants: Since 2021 October till mid December of 2021, there have been 2 stinky trash event; 3 unflushed stool events (not flushed enough after pee so that there are strong smell or not flushed or brushed & flushed till the stool completely clean so that there are some stains inside the stool) Several unnecessarily closing the doors with heavy bangs, especially in the quiet using time in early morning or late evening. There could be noises during 7:00-22:00 when people use kitchen, showering room, toilets, entering or leaving the place. Such sounds are acceptable. We understand people are living here, need to communicate with families and friends, also need relaxing time, but too loud laughing or chatting for long or watching videos with too loud sound is not allowed here. 5:30/6:00-7:00 and 22:00-23:00 is quiet using time. 23:00-6:00 is absolute quiet time. There used to be a bullying event of uncleared hairs after showering when several female tenants staying here. The person who always cleared her hairs felt being bullied when two others didn't do so every time. Most mis-behavior, or all the misbehavior do not continue when we check with the person himself/herself. There were two cases, they keep on thinking new ways to disturb others, and even took others things without permission. They are two too proud people, but unfortunately who are poor in emotional control and fragile, and don't have other means to gain respect or attention from other peole. Then the reservation ended with them. So, please keep in mind, it's not the politeness or being nice and understanding that stop the annoying situation, but the COURAGE to give feedback, to articulate, to let the person know that you are not afraid of him/her, your being nice and polite is not to flatter him/her (sadly, some people need this regulation, though they are not children anymore). People who intends to bully or testing other's border stops immediately when you dare to speak it. This happens in working place in Finnish society as well. But you need to prove you are a good worker in your working place as well (though it's another thing). Please always keep this in mind. We don't encourage people to seek friendship here first. Because appreciation or entry-level friendship will develop naturally when people feel others organize their own things well and don't disturb others. It could be an interesting place to meet people from different background, in a silent and sophisticated way, and with privacy well protected. There will be four rooms available since the beginning of August, 2022. The available time for booking would be 7:00-21:00, 22:00-23:00 for showering room using; and 7:00-19:00, 20:30-22:00 for cooking. A person sometimes use kitchen to heat food at around 5.45-6.15 in the early morning before working, but not cooking. It's allowed for several people to heat food at the same time in the early morning 5.30-7.00. But tell ur approximate using time so that I will send message to inform everyone about the situation. Check if it suits your daily life schedule before booking. During your stay I will be the place more when I feel bullying intention or some interpersonal problem among guests, so maintain the place clean and neat, and to spot and solve the problems timely. This page is for people who don't bully and are not tolerant to any bullying from others. This is also a place to practice your courage to articulate and communication skills. Please keep in mind, when I mentioned anything about skills here, I don't mean my potential guest should raise something up in a timid and polite, and flattering way. I just need you to send me a message, telling something wrong, no matter how small or tiny it is, but in a calm way, no cursing or attacking with any labels, like nationality or gender or other irrational wording. See the example below: In November, a tenant (A) here left this place for a couple of weeks, he/she cleared everything and her/his own dustbin in the kitchen, but a small empty and unbrushed-till-completely-clean yogurt container was left in his/her dustbin, which kept on emitting not-obvious but sensible bad smell from spoiled dairy products. Another tenant (B) here were not satisfied with it, but he/she felt ashamed to speak out about it, worrying people think that he/she was making a fuss. He/She (person B) then started to accumulated his/her trash unless it emitted stinky smell. I found this situation three days later, and asked the person B to clear his/her trash immediately. He/She did so, but he/she worried that I would not notice the small less-stinky yogurt container in A's dustbin, then he/she put a piece of rotten leftover of a grilled chicken drumstick into B's dustbin. Please don't react in the above way when you encounter a situation which makes you uncomfortable. Just tell me someone left their dustbin with bad smell. I will ask the person to clear it immediately. If the person is away and cannot deal with it in the same day, I will deal with it in the same day, at 24:00 latest. It's the first time. If such situation happen the second time, I will dispose the trash as soon as possible, and charge the person 2 euros for it. The reservation ends immediately if same mis-behavor occur for the fourth time. SPEAKING IT OUT is the RIGHT way to communicate. That's what I mean by "communication skills". Competing to make this place more messy or more stinky is NOT, it's only a behavior from a coward person.